IT'S ME, SAM

Call me crazy!

2012-02-18T18:41:00.000-04:00

You all can call me certifiable after this latest move. Monday is my new phase in life" aka" non- smoking... I've been pondering over where to put the money that I spent smoking... I've borrowed 5,000.00 over the next two years to put in my RRSP's.

It was/is a large amount of money, but it works out to 106/biweekly. I've been spending about 100/biweekly smoking... So, now I have a huge, reason to no longer smoke... A new debt. Drastic? Yep, however, knowing that I owe this money ( and I can pay it off faster) is a huge motivator. Plus, I can talk about quitting smoking and not have any anxiety this time. Wish me well, as the first week will be rough, but I have a plan.

Visualizing myself running a 5 km this fall, picturing myself sitting around a campfire, not smoking, etc. Walking, cleaning, decluttering, dancing, yoga, and cooking will serve me well in the up coming months. Plus, lots and lots of water to flush my system... I have a huge box of straws on my desk at work, and I'll be buying some peppermints and gum to help me out.

So there you have it... My fawked up sense of motivation...

A response

2012-02-15T12:33:00.002-04:00

Judi and Amy, I'm answering the questions!

Here are my questions:

1. If you could have 3 people over for a dinner party, who would they be (and a short why)? I'd like to chat with both my grandmothers and DD's great grandmother. I'd like to know what it was really like for them growing up. ( one grandmother was born in 1902, one in 1919) and DD's was born around 1910)

2. Who is your favourite author and why? Steven King- Love the spooky factor....

3. What activities/clubs did you join in High School and what was your favourite
-High school - I took part in winter carnival and some other things that I can't for the life of me remember. I kick myself for not being in Drama...

4. Is there a movie that you can watch over and over again and never get sick of it? Why? a Shawshank Redemption - love the idea that people can put their mind to something and accomplish it. Brookes is my favortie character. I cry every time he commits suicide, but after spending 50 years in prison, where he was respected and revered, he suddenly becomes a sad, old man that society looks down upon...

5. Do you have any hobbies? Tell us about them. I love to paint... Must start this up again... Does reading count?

6. Is there someone from your past that you have lost touch with but would like to have them back in your life…who is it and why? Oh, this is a loaded question... There are a few people I'd like to see what they're up to today...

7. Tell us about your guilty pleasure - smoking...

8. Do you watch tv? What are your 3 favourite shows (and if you don’t watch tv, tells us why you don’t) Criminal Minds, CSI, Big Bang Thoery

9. What did you want to be when you grew up? A detective ( like perry mason and Nanct Drew), an archelogist, a reporter, a child psychologist... Funny, but the job I do has little bits of all this...

10. Why did you start blogging? I needed a place to talk... without criticism and a whole lot of judgement.

11. Who do you most admire in your life? Tell us something about that person.

I admire people who are living their lives the way that they want, and not what others expect them to do... I struggle with this all the time...

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Thoughts about my vacation...

2012-02-14T16:17:00.001-04:00

I loved the trip... I'll be honest and say that I really didn't start to relax until Thursday, next time I'll stay for two weeks. I came home with 29.00 in my pocket. The most of my money went to tips. We took a trip into a small town ( 20.00), where I did buy 3x1 lb bags of blue mountian coffee for 17.33/bag ( Oh, I can dicker with people). I paid 28.00 for 2 quarts of rum cream ( banana and coconut). Bought a bottle of Red Stripe beer ( 2.00).I also paid 22.00 for 4 bottle of vanilla. I also bought some jewelry from the beach ( 35.00 for that). 4.00 for a pack of Kools,3.00 for a bottle of water at the airport and 9.00 for Wendy's at the airport.

I tipped 97.00 over the week. 15.00 was for my maid, who took great care of my room ( and me). She gave me lots of coffee and water every day, and made pretty towel swans. I also left behind body lotion, body spray, candy and books. I had to make room for my goodies. I brought back 3 kinds of rum, was honest at customs and was prepared to pay the duty, but customs didn't charge me anything! I was also given some free swag, which I gave away to people as gifts.

I wasn't crazy about the amount of food that was being wasted every day at the resort ( I did find out that they sold it for pig food, but still... unbelievable). I found the food bland and oily for the most part, but loved the jerk chicken and spicy beef. I also ate something similar to spinach every day, but I can't think of the name of it! The drinks were great, dirty bananas and hummingbirds...

I was "offered" by a young male staff "to take me out to lunch, shopping, etc... Then, maybe you can fly me Canada?" He was a Breath takingly, beautiful young man, but it had a slightly slimey feel to me.( maybe if I was 15 years younger I would have gone for lunch, but not now).

The wedding was amazing. So laid back, and fun! No stress, no fuss, no muss. Just two people who love one another!

The beach and water? I love the ocean, so it was fantastic...

One last thing to add: I had a sample of Bumble and Bumble thickening shampoo and conditener while I was away. My hair was amazing while I was away. I'll be the proud owner of some this week-end, coming all the way from Ontario.

Sunday night chit chat

2012-02-12T18:50:00.000-04:00

Photos? None... I didn't take a camera with me!

Reading? I'm not sure yet.

Watching? Nothing.

Listening to? The clock tick in the kitchen

Cooking/baking? Nothing

Happy that I accomplished this week? Does drinking count? I had lots of yummy drinks, and even better coffee. I did score 3 - 1 lb bags of blue Mountain coffee for 52.00 ( which worked out to 17.33/bag! I also brought back more booze than allowed, was totally up front about it and didn't have to pay any duty!

Looking forward to this week? A short work week ( I'm working from home Thursday and Friday). Sleeping in my own bed tonight.

Thankful for? My cousin and his beautiful wife for putting us up for the night, and getting home safe today! It was a bad one yesterday, and we stayed put. It made for a long day, but I'm home safe and sound, bags are unpacked, laundry started and the few gifts I bought are delivered!

Now, I'm off to do another load of laundry and get my bag packed again... I'll write more about the trip later on!

My bags are packed, I ready to go...

2012-02-03T19:45:00.000-04:00

By this time tomorrow night, I'll be in the air, on my way to Jamaica, for a week of no responsibilities, no cooking, no cleaning and no work! I've got a drive to and from the airport, I've arranged free parking for the week ( gotta love family). I'll chip in for gas, I'm packing a lunch/snacks for the trip. ( I don't want to spend too much money on takeout tomorrow, knowing I'll be eating every meal in a restaurant for a week!

My suitcase is packed, along with my carry-on. I did buy some snacks for the beach, along with gum and peppermints. I bought 2 brand new paperbacks today along with 5 books at a used book store and I received 2 free books in the mail yesterday. I figure I'm set for reading materials. And yes, I most likely will read all 9 books on my trip. An average week book wise for me is 3-4, and considering I have nothing to do but swim, read, eat, drink and walk, I'll be good! I'm also going unplugged for the trip. So I'll have lots of catching up to do next Sunday!

The car is filled with gas, I'm loaning it to someone for the week. It makes no sense to keep the car in the driveway, as DD can't drive, and if it storms, no one can plow the drive way, so it's being borrowed by someone I trust.

One last thing? Remember how I had the goal of 300.00 American to bring with me? I ended up with 281.00, none of which came from the bank. I had decided that that was enough money, as I didn't want to have to pay bank fees for 20.00. My godparents heard I was going down south and dropped a twenty dollar bill off to my parents house yesterday! Now I have 301.00 American for my trip!

Have a great week everyone and enjoy the nice weather!

Sunday night chit chat

2012-01-29T22:21:00.000-04:00

No photos for me!

Reading?

Nothing... Yet... I'm thinking of rereading something

Watching?
Just finished Million dollar neighborhood on OWN... really inspiring

Listening to?
The family guy

Cooking/Baking?
I make a fruit crisp today with blackberries, strawberries, apple and the topping was a combination of stale peanut butter cookies, oatmeal, butter and flour, with a splash of lime juice and maple syrup. OMG... it was delicious.

Happy you accomplished this week?
suitcase packed

Looking forward to next week?
going on vacation, but not until I get everything done!

Thankful for today?
Being able to take the dog for a well deserved walk! The sun was shining, and it wasn't freezing for a change!

Planning and plotting

2012-01-29T15:36:00.000-04:00

I've figuring things about budget wise... I'll keep you all posted as i figure out some things. One thing I noticed a pattern in, is spending the bulk my money on payday and leaving very little. That is one area that will be changing!

I've got my suitcase packed for my trip, I won't be buying a Kobo, I just can't justify it. I'll be heading to the library and borrowing some paperbacks ( the ones that they don't care if you ever bring back), load them into my carry on, and I'll be good. I'll probably bring a few of my old favorites with me to reread. I'll also be bringing a pen, pencil and a couple of notebooks to write, sketch and dream in! I'll also throw a few snacks in my suitcase, in case I get the midnight munchies!

Today was low key, breakfast out with my parents ( they paid, so I left a tip), and a long walk in the woods with the dog. It's the first walk we've been on since early January and long over due. It was a windy ( west wind) walk, so I'm sure I burned a few calories. Oh and I've lost 2 pounds so far ( in three weeks). Considering I've done no exercise and mainly have just stopped eating chips ( for the most part), I'm doing good!

Buying Gail's program and a confession

2012-01-25T20:00:00.000-04:00

I spent 4.99 yesterday on Gail's little finicial package. I'll admit that I have no skills in excel and have attempted to figure out numerous times what's she's offered for free... to continually mess it up and end up with it saying I have more money than I really do!

If I don't start getting serious about what I owe, I'm a pay cheque away from disaster. Honestly... I'm embarassed about how much I owe... When I look at my gross income and my net pay, I'm amazed... At how bad I've messed up. However, I can fix things, I have the ability and the tools, and finally the desire to get things fixed. I'm too embarrased to tell people that I have no choice, I have to work the second job in order to keep the house going...

The biggest things I have to do is writing everything down... asking for recipts and most important? Quitting smoking... to redirect the 150.00/month I spend on smoking to debt repayment. My plan is to quit in 3.5 weeks ( or sooner). 75/biweekly to go towards a credit card payment... every penny counts...

That's my confession, debt to my eyeballs, but a work in progress with a workable plan and the knowledge that it took me years to do this to myself, but in 36 months I can be debt free. ( and maybe have a little fun at the same time)...

One thing that I've passed on to my daughter

2012-01-24T08:17:00.000-04:00

My daughter loves to cook from scratch. How many 19 year olds do you know can or want to do this? How and why did she aquire this skill?

DD used to be like a lot of kids her age, liking things that were quick and easy ( ie prepackaged ). One summer, her best friend went away for the bulk of the summer ( I think she was 12 at the time) and DD was bored. She started watching the Food Network and fell in love with Chef Michael Smith and Rachel Ray and their simple techniques for cooking high quality food, in a short time span ( no 12 hours slaving over the stove). At the same time, I became fascinated with the "slow food movement" and the concept that food/cooking is meant to be enjoyed and shared, not another chore to add to the list. That same summer, at our local library book sale, I found a 1926 version of the Boston School of Cooking cook book and I picked it up for a whole dollar.

I stopped buying( about 90% of the time) convience foods to cook, handed her the cook book and told her if she wanted something, look it up and figure out how to make it. The first thing she figured out and mastered was a basic white sauce. Her friends used to cringe I'm sure when they'd look for food and I'd say there's lots here but you have to cook it. Her friends now usually request her homemade mac& cheese when they come to the house or if she is visiting them.

DD has also grown up watching people make bread, rolls, biscuits, pie crust from scratch. She has the knack for this and her bread is on par with both of her grandmothers and great grand mothers. In our house, we refer to baking as a"science" and I'll say that this is one science she has mastered!

She can make a pot roast, roast a chicken, make a pot of soup ( her split pea is amazing), and her homemade alfredo sauce... OMG... Plus her gravy, there's usually a fight over the leftovers...

I'll never worry about her abilty to create a meal for herself. With some basic staples, she'll always have the tools to eat ( and eat well). She's willing to share her skills with her friends, and most of them have caught on to the idea that if she cooks, they're more than willing to clean!

Another added bonus of her ability to cook, is she knows her way around the grocery store and she knows how to get the most out her grocery money.

Sunday night chit chat

2012-01-22T21:05:00.001-04:00

Reading?
Book 5 of the game of thrones series ( confession time I couldn't wait for the paperback bought it on Thursday 32.00)

Watching?
Fifth Estate

Listening to?
see above

Cooking/Baking?
Today I made a crust less quiche ( spinach and feta), mashed potatoes, meat pie ( it was a gift at Christmas) and peas. DD made the gravy and did the dishes!

Happy you accomplished this week?
My interview went well, the laundry is caught up, spent time hanging out with family and friends. Working on my non smoking program and some other goals.

Looking forward to next week?
Having a couple of no spend days ( Monday was the only day this past week that it happened. I also need to pick up my prescription for my epi-pens and get my tickets for my trip. I'm also going to pack my suitcase this Saturday and make sure that I have everything ready for my trip!

Thankful for today?

My dad has been tobacco free for 7 days. He'll be under going heart surgery in a few weeks and made the decision to quit smoking after 60 some years. He's got some major blockages and it's no wonder that he's slowed down so much this past year. Fingers crossed that everything goes well.

DD applied for her student loan today. i could not find last year income tax papers to save my soul. We did manage to get all the info she needed thanks to my handy dandy blue binder that I keep all my bills/ etc in for the year. I had the papers that income tax sent me in the spring, plus my pay stubs are on line! One major task completed!

Holy Moly...

2012-01-17T11:21:00.001-04:00

Just got notice that I'm being interviewed Thursday... I have a lot of work to do! Wish me luck!

Sunday night chit chat

2012-01-15T21:51:00.001-04:00

Reading?
Death Dance by Linda Fairstien and I finshed all 4 books in the Game of throne series

Watching?
Criminal Minds

Listening to?
see above

Cooking/Baking?
I made a huge pot of sapghetti sauce, potato leek soup, rolls, chocolate chip cookies and a spinach salad, oh and I bought a store pizza and dressed it up at home

Happy you accomplished this week?

Some work, some fun and I have my American money fund at 281.00, oh and fidning out I'm going to have an interview for a new job...

Looking forward to next week?
exercising on my own, Friday night( going to visit a friend, seeing my parents on Friday, my Dad is going to see the heart specialist tomorrow to see what they're going to go for him. Oh and DD is going to cook pork ribs for supper on Friday and the family will be here for supper that night.

Thankful for today?

My DD and the dog, plus having the family over for supper tonight ( homemade soup, rolls, salad and cookies for dessert)

I spent a total of 30 on gas, 22 on tobacco, and 24 at the grocery store today ( I bought more ribs, ketchup, strawberries, pretzels and shallots). I've been throwing money into my sealed jar, but I'm not tracking that money. I want it to be a suprise come December 1st!

So far this month...

2012-01-13T18:58:00.000-04:00

I've had 6 no spend days, and I'm thinking that I may be able to pull off another 4 in the up coming week. Tomorrow I have to work, so I'll be hanging out at home, doing some work for work, a bit of cleaning and of course, walking the dog!

Tonight I spent just under 50.00 at the grocery store. There was a ton of good sales, and I ended up with yogurt, milk, cream, eggs, spinach, 2 x mushrooms, leeks, bananas, cantaloupe, 3 containers of stock, 2 cans tomato sauce, chicken strips, pork ribs, and pepperoni, oh and 2 bags of bits & bites. I'm planning on making a huge pot of spaghetti sauce on Sunday, along with a pizza. I'm also going to try my hand at leek and potato soup. The pizza will have red pepper, spinach, mushrooms, onions and pepperoni. The spaghetti sauce I'll add spinach, mushrooms, onions, peppers, gr beef, and tomatoes...

My goal for the week is not to buy groceries while I'm at work. I have lots of things up there to eat, and I'll bring a chicken breast to have for two suppers. I'll have an omelet another night, and my landlady is making supper on Monday. I have two lunches frozen for next week ( leftovers from last week), so I only need to bring three more lunches. I have oatmeal for breakfast and frozen blueberries to add, plus yogurt.

I'm working tomorrow night, so I'm throwing it out to the universe that I'd like to make 150.00 tomorrow night. Enjoy your week-end everyone.

I've got an interview

2012-01-12T12:50:00.002-04:00

I just checked my e-mail and I'll be having an interview for a new job soon! I'll be done some hitting of the books this week-end!

My quasi low spend January

2012-01-09T19:16:00.001-04:00

While I'm not officially taking part in the no/low spend challenge this month, I am being more careful in my spending. I had no spend days on the 3, 4, 6, 7 so far. I shopped yesterday and today, I bought groceries to a tune of 24.22 ( carrots, 4 boxes frozen veggies, frozen blueberries, yogurt, caesar salad, milk, cream, and something else that I can't remember). I also bought a bag of chips- 1.25 and a coffee this morning 1.75. I also received a Xmas gift, a twenty dollar gift card to Tim's. That made my heart sing...

I made two pots of soup yesterday, which made enough for 15 lunches. I figured that it cost me about 10.00 total, which is less than 1.00/ lunch. Add in some fruit, yogurt, crackers and some cheese or peanut butter and I'll still be spending less than 5.00/day on lunch. Way cheaper than going out for lunch and better for my waist line.

I do have to come up with a plan for the afternoon snack attack. Today I had some pumpkin, sunflower and raisins, but half an hour later I ate a little bag of chips. Maybe a yogurt or pudding alongside the other things?

Oh and my weight yesterday - 171.6 pounds. I haven't weighted this much in about 5 years or long...

Sunny Sunday!

2012-01-08T14:04:00.000-04:00

Today I'm going to tidy the house before I leave for the week. I have three loads of laundry to do, beef barley soup and some vegetable soup to make ( my lunches for the next two weeks), a few grocery's to buy and a trip in the woods with the dog. I did made 130.00 working the past two nights ( both were 4 hours shifts).

I've also joined my PT work weight loss challenge. It's 10.00 to join, and at the weekly weigh in if you gain weight you pay per pound, if you lose, you pay nothing. The over all winner, based on percentage lost wins the pot. It's good incentive to get off my duff and win some money.

I just got back from shopping... I've wanted some new work clothes for a long time, and I haven't bought any new winter clothes for work in over a year. For 124.00 I got 2 new pairs of pants, 2 sweaters, 3 t-shirts, 2 tanks tops and a new pair of boots. If I had bought them all at full price I would have spent 372.90. I spent my tips on new clothes and I'm pretty happy with my purchases. It's rather funny that I bought new clothes before losing any weight, but I'm tired of wearing the same 5 pairs of pants to work every week, along with the holey t-shirts and tired looking sweaters.

I did pick up some chicken that was on sale and some broccoli and garlic. I'll be eating well this week!

Getting things done...

2012-01-06T14:12:00.001-04:00

The poor dog has been dragging his bum... trip to the vet this afternoon... update the dog needed his anal glads drained...22.60 what a stench!
HBO and movie channels canceled...
Contact ordered -140.00
Bell contacted... refund of 22.31 due in about 6 weeks...

Now, I'm off to shower before work...

Oh and I got a good couple solid hours of work done... More to do tomorrow and Sunday...

PS. I'm finished buying clothing for down south... what I have will have to do.
I got my pantry, spice cabinet, bathroom and closet cleaned out this week, plus my Wii set up... Now, to get using the Wii Fitness... Pray for me, as I'm really out of shape right now...

My trip down south

2012-01-03T21:12:00.000-04:00

I'm going to a family wedding in early February to Jamaica. It's my first warm vacation in since 1995. I bought three new bathing suits as my plan is to sit on the beach/pool side for 5 or 6 days. Eat, drink, swim, read, sleep and repeat. Three bathing suits is what everyone recommends, as it takes about 2 days for one to completely dry. I have a dress for the wedding and a few other things to wear, but I'll be honest and I'm planning on packing light. T-shirts, a pair of capri's, a skirt, a few dresses, flip flops, gym clothes, a pair of jeans, a couple of light sweaters, socks, undies, bras and beach cover ups. I'm planning on bring back with me : rum, vanilla and coffee beans. I'm planning a spa day, complete with a massage and a pedicure. I may take a day trip, but I'm not sure yet. I'll be buying a Kobo and fill it with free books from the library. I may bring a paperback or two and leave them behind. I may also bring some snack foods, along with my own coffee mug and water bottle. That's my trip in a nut shell. I'll be hanging with family, and spending time floating in the water, taking part in some yoga classes and having some fun.

Back to reality...

2012-01-03T09:00:00.000-04:00

It's back to work for me, which means reality has hit home. Next week I'll be back to forking out 150/week for rent and gas, making the 2 hour drive twice a week or more ( depending on what's going on). I have 13 weeks left to pay rent and travel every week. It will go super fast I'm sure... The last 8 weeks, I'll be working mainly from home and then, I'm really not sure where I'll be working. ( No worries, my old job is guaranteed for me).

I did go bathing suit shopping yesterday and found 3 tops and 4 bottoms for 158.08. the store had just started putting out the bathing suits that morning, so I managed to find my size without a problem. I may borrow some dresses or I'll go and check out our local used clothing store.

I also decided to join the sealed pot challenge. I used a 1 litre mason jar, wrapped in a blue bag, then duct taped to the extreme. I think I'm going to use the money towards a good camera or a clothing shopping trip ( maybe a pair of Frye boots?) I'll open the sealed jar on December 1, 2012. I found about 10.00 in change around the house and threw that money in the jar to start.

New Years Eve!

2011-12-31T11:37:00.000-04:00

I'm celebrating the New Year by working at my PT job. It's snowing out, so I'm not sure how busy it'll be, but we'll make the best of it!

Today, I'm cleaning the house. I've got laundry on the go, I swamped out DD's room, I'm got my things organized for my trip down south ( I'm on the hunt for two new bathing suits, a pair of shorts and a couple of skirts/ dresses. I may take a trip to the big city and go to Valu Village for the shorts and skirts, the bathing suits I'll buy new, as I need to find ones that fit my bust and don't turn the girls into pancakes.)

The dog is going to my mothers for the night to keep my nephew company, as my sister and her husband are leaving for the night ( a death is pending in his family). The dog will keep them all busy and help sooth my nephew at this difficult time.

I've taken down the bulk of the decorations, the tree is still up with just the coloured lights still on it. I'll dismantle the tree completely tomorrow.

As far as resolutions go, my motto this year will be "Live with in my means", which for me will include paying down debt, saving 1000.00 for Christmas, and having 2 months of reduced spending. I won't be joining in with others for January's no spend, as I have about 200.00 budgeted for new clothes, plus I'm planning on buying a Kobo for my trip ( another 200 towards that). I still would like to have another 75.00 for spending money too. All together, I'll have spent 2,200 on my trip, that's including the trip, spending money and some new clothes. I realize that money could have gone towards debt repayment, but for me, I'm looking forward to spending time with family, and relaxing with no commitments to anything for a week.

I will buy more hand made items for people next Christmas, as they were the big hit among family and friends. The most expensive items were 10.00 per item.

It was a great few days.

2011-12-26T07:05:00.000-04:00

The past two days were great,low key and relaxed! Christmas eve was spent visiting with family and friends, having a old friend drop by and staying for 2 hour visit. We all had a few glasses of red wine and some mulled cider, along with meat pie and other finger foods. Christmas morning I woke up at 4:30 and made a pot of coffee, and sat by the tree watching the fire and dog curled up beside me. DD work up to go the bathroom before 7:00, and she decided to stay up and unwrap her presents. She was happy with her gifts, the favorite I think was a toss up between the electric mattress pad and her new Kobo touch ( from my sister).

We went to watch my nephew open some of his gifts, and he was too funny! I bought him a bag of guumy tarantulas to stash in his gift and he enjoyed them, as he tried to scare his mother with them. My family got me good, by buying me a Keurig and keeping it at my sisters for me to open. I was very surprised and thankful for such a lovely gift. I haven't tried it out yet, but I'm sure I will at some point today.

DD bought me the first 4 books in the Game of Thrones series, so I'll be doing some serious reading over the holidays.

Brunch and supper were yummy, and Dd finished off the night by going to visit with her other grandmother. We laughed, listened to some great stories about DD's fathers family. I even had a chance to talk to DD's uncle for a couple of minutes and hope to have a visit with him later on this year.

Merry Christmas to all!

2011-12-24T14:08:00.000-04:00

I just thought I'd take a minute and wish everyone a very Merry Christmas! I'll be having family and friends over tonight for snacks and mulled cider. I have a few things to tidy up in the house and the driveway to finish shoveling. I'm hoping to attend midnight mass and enjoy tomorrow, hanging with the family, watching my nephew open his gifts and eating lots of mashed potatoes with gravy!

a few photos

2011-12-23T13:54:00.001-04:00

I'm excited!

2011-12-23T08:55:00.001-04:00

Why? Because the plumbers are here to fix the sink! Merry Christmas to me!

I'm finished with the gift buying...

2011-12-21T08:01:00.000-04:00

I took my father shopping last night to buy my mother something for Christmas. Between my sisters and I one of us has been doing this for probably the last 35 years or so. I asked my Dad what his budget was and he said " I dunno, 300.00?". I knew my mom would be really irritated if he spent that much, so I figured 100.00 would be good. She really wanted grey pants, so I found a pair of grey cords and a beautiful sweater ( both were 40% off and the total was under 100.00). My younger sister and I hadn't bought our mother a gift yet, and I knew that she wanted a new fleece jacket. I found a teal coloured one, plus a pair of leggings for under 60.00.

I also spent 70.44 for some groceries ( I still need more but I'll send DD and my mother on Thursday morning to finish up, while I'm at work). I have no meat in my freezer, and about 2 cups of frozen veggies left, plus not a single holiday treat... I figure 100.00 to 150.00 should cover the rest. DD will go to the Liquor store and buy 2 bottles of wine and a bottle of Bailey's for the season. ( She's 19, so that'll save me a trip).

It just dawned on me, that if DD finishes the grocery shopping and wine run, I will not have to step foot into a store until after Christmas... I just have to make sure the list is complete!

I got something in the mail today!

2011-12-19T18:43:00.000-04:00

And it was from my secret Santa who's name is EBOO... I made a small idea that it was going to be Eboo and it's the second time in 6 months that she sent me a gift through an on line swap! The slippers are sublime, the apron is very sweet, the chocolate is/was great, the bath salts smell divine, the candle looks good enough ot eat and the reusable Christmas tags will be staying here forever!

Thank you Eboo, from the tips of my warm toes! PS, I dropped a card in the mail for you today, before I picked up my gift, so thanks again!

Just a little update

2011-12-16T06:16:00.000-04:00

Hello all!

I'm home officially for the holidays. I'll be working from home, but I'll be on vacation for one week, from the 24th until the 31st. I have no big plans, just lots of walks, hanging out with family and friends and enjoying the down time.

My bloggy secret santa recipient received her gift this week! Jen, I'm glad you liked the oven mitts! I spotted them in the store and they were the only ones like that left!

I still have gifts left to buy but not a whole lot. I have 3 of my nephews left, 2 things left to pick up for DD, 2 books to pick up for my god daughter and her sister, something for my mom, and a gift card to send to my sister. 200 should cover it all.

I spent 47.00 on beer ( yes I give beer as a gift, my Dad, my cousin and my BIL all are on the receiving end of this one).

This morning I'm taking my Dad to the hospital for blood work, then I'll drop by the main office, do a few things there, come home and work for a few more hours. I need to go to the bank, and pack my bag for the week-end. I'm looking forward to my little get away this week-end.

Happy Friday to all!

Reasons why I should not be allowed to fix things in my house!

2011-12-13T08:35:00.000-04:00

If I had a photo I'd show you, but I didn't take one. My kitchen sink has been very slow to drain for months. I thought I had fixed the problem but nope, last week everything would drain out of one sink and come back up the other and took abot 20 minutes to empty out.

So Saturday morning, I took a good look under the sink, and realised that I had never looked up at the underside of the sink and the traps. Can you guess what I saw next? One of the traps was held together with duct tape and I didn't do it, which means that the tape is over 7 years old!

Out comes the hand saw, and I cut the plastic drain pipes away, figuring that I'll get the pieces and put a new set of pipes in. My dad brought me over a snake to clean the line and I snaked the line. I decided to go down into the basement and check the line. There was a leak... Yes, the 40 year old pipe has sprung a leak at an old weld site. The plumber is coming at some point to replace the line and the under the sink pipes...

Thanks goodness DD is away, as it's a major pain to wash dishes in a pan and flush the remains away...

Oh and if you need something else to laugh at this morning, I was half way to work yesterday when I realised that my office keys were either on the kitchen table or in my bedroom. I had to go home tomorrow to get the keys, as I'm locked out of my main computer until then.

Thanks Lousie!

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"Liebster" is a German word meaning dear, sweet, kind, nice, good, beloved, lovely, kindly, pleasant, valued, cute, endearing, and welcome. What a gift to be awarded with such kindness! As for the details...The Liebster is a way to show a little Blog Love to bloggers who currently have less than 200 followers.

I'd like to say thanks to Louise at http://eliminate-my-debt.blogspot.com/ for giving me this award. I haven't decided who to pass the love onto yet, and when I do I'll post it again! It still freaks me out a little when I realise that there are people all over the world who read my ramblings!

The rules:
1. Thank the giver and link back to the blogger who gave it to you.
2. Reveal your top 5 picks and let them know by leaving a comment on their blog.
3. Copy and paste the award on your blog.
4. Have faith that your followers will spread the love to other bloggers.
5. And most of all - have fun!

I'd like to pass on this award to five great bloggers who are on my regular reading list and in no particular order :
1.)http://shakingthemoneytree.blogspot.com/ Jolie ( makes me smile)
2.)http://witchisland.blogspot.com/ The Witch ( best pizza dough)
3.)http://lifebeginsatretirement.blogspot.com/ Jane (Zany)
4.)http://saving4later.blogspot.com/ CS ( a fellow east coaster)
5.)http://eboolifejourney.blogspot.com/ Eboo ( best soap maker)

Thanks again Lousie and thanks to you all for inspiring me to do my best!

I got something in the mail today!

2011-12-09T18:55:00.000-04:00

I received my order of soaps and other goodies from Eboo that I ordered! Oh, my it was just like Christmas opening the box! DD claimed some things for her stocking and some stuff was designated for gifts for others and the rest is all mine!

Thanks again Eboo!

I'm feeling a little bit better about Christmas...

2011-12-09T09:52:00.000-04:00

I'm not sure why I don't have a lot of Christmas spirit yet, but I'm trying! Yesterday, I stopped into a small Christmas shop to have a look around. I ended up buying a couple of really cute things, and kicked my self for not going there before I mailed out my secret Santa gift! I may end up sending my secret santa another small gift, if I find what I want at home tomorrow!

Today, I'm planning on buying my tree, getting it set up and decorated. My sister is having a party tonight, so DD and I will be in attendance! Tomorrow will be wrapping presents, going to a meeting, walking the dog and making a list of things left to buy, groceries to buy and a meal plan of sorts. I'm working on Sunday, so the only thing I'll have time for is a walk with the dog. I'll have my clothes packed up tomorrow morning and I'll be set for the week!

For next week, I'll be entering a reduced smoking plan... I'll be limiting myself to set schedule of smoking times and if I miss the time, I'll have to wait until the next scheduled time. I'll post my plan later if anyone else is interested in this method.

I'm so not in the Spirit of Christmas yet!

2011-12-07T15:34:00.000-04:00

Just a little bit of bah humbug setting in! I did manage to get my Secret Santa gift sent out today. The weather is crappy outside and it's affecting my mood... Here's to better days.

Sunday night Chit chat volume 2 for me!

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What are you cooking/baking tonight?
Today I made a huge batch of chili, plus stuffed french toast. I cooked a ham last night and we'll be eating it all week!

What are you watching/reading?
Sister wives is on the TV. I'm reading John Connolly's The Reapers, and Dark a collection of modern ghost stories.

What are you listening to?
Sister wives...
Looking forward to this week?
Coming home on Friday, buying and setting up the Christmas tree, clearing my desk and getting things ready for the New Year!

Happy that you accomplished this week?
Ginger bread houses, an impromptu over night visit with 2 of my nephews, and getting most of the laundry done!

It's Friday!

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and I'm still at work, and will be here until around 9:00 tonight, then I'll make the two hour trek home. I work tomorrow night, so tomorrow will be doing things around the house, walking the dog and I'm not sure what else. Sunday I've got plans set out from 12:00 noon to after 9:00PM. I'll have enough time to sleep and hit the road again Monday morning.

But I only have 2 more Monday mornings left this year to travel for work! Actually if I were to count, I only have 20 more Monday mornings to travel in this contract!

Moneywise, I'm treading water... But being at home over the holidays will cut my costs down by about 300.00 for sure!

Monday morning musings

2011-11-28T09:01:00.000-04:00

I had a busy but fun week-end. I got a haircut, the dog went to the groomo ers for the first time ,and she asked when I could bring him back, he was so well behaved! Go figure, considering how much chaos he caused the first 18 months we had him. Rememeber the chewed up chair cushion, the shoes, etc?

I also bought my Dad's birthday present, tickets to a play, plus got the house cleaned, and decorated for Christmas ( except the tree which I'll get the 10th or 11th). We attended my god daughters b-day and dropped off her gift ( 4 halloween costumes for the price of one) and she loved them! DD had bought tickets to a local fundraiser at a chain store and we got swag bags when we left. I scored a great red lipstick in my bag ( I love red lipsticks, blue red not orange red). DD and I traded some of our goodies, as my bag had things that suited her coloring better than my coloring and hers had things that suited me.

This up coming week-end DD and I will be joining our family in our annual gingerbread house day. DD and I will be making brunch to bring, while they supply the houses. A great trade off I think. We've been doing it for 6 Chirstmas's, and we have a lot of laughs! I won;t be getting home until late Friday night ( like 9 or 10 PM), so that will definately make next week-end go by way too quick!

Everytime I write about the house being sold, I jinks myself!

2011-11-27T10:09:00.000-04:00

Yep, it happened again. He's approved for the funding, but doesn't have the down payment settled. He was supposed to get the down payment as a gift, and the gift-er backed out. ACK...

As it very rains but pours, someone is coming to see the house today with a Realtor. I'm doing a bit of cleaning and decorating for Christmas at the same time. I'm going to enjoy the day as best I can, and what happens, happens. I won't be writing about the house being sold until everything is cleared and the lawyers are involved. Fingers crossed that the third times the charm!

It's coming fast!

2011-11-26T07:16:00.000-04:00

Christmas that is. I'm staying on target ( for the most part) but I did buy one thing that was on my wish list for a few years. I bought a second hand Wii complete with a fitness board, numbchucks and three games for 180.00. I forgot it at the office yesterday, so I'll bring it home next week-end.

This weekend is going to be jam packed. Events include groomer for puppy, hair cut for me ( after 13 weeks of not having a hair cut), helping out a friend with her daughter's b-day party, a school fund raiser, a visit to a new baby ( I'm excited about seeing her!), and an evening out with DD that she paid for! In between all this, it'll be getting things sorted through in the basement, walking the dog and attempting to cook something. I'll pick up a few essentials at the grocery store ( milk is a must). I'm also going to do a couple of loads of my laundry ( DD's been home all week, and it's piled up down stairs, but I'm only doing mine, plus the towels). I'll also get some cleaning done in between events.

I also need to tweak my resume, write a cover letter and send it off to head office. If I go back to my old job, it's the job that I want ( but I'll have to transfer which I'm ok with).

There's an old saying " no rest for the wicked" and that's what this week-end is looking like, no rest, but lots of fun ( for a change).

Happy Saturday everyone!

I had written a post earlier...

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but now that I'm calmer, I won't be posting it. I swore a ton in the post and writing it all down made me feel better. Deleting it will feel even better. I do wonder about people sometimes. How can some people have such narrow minds? Beliefs in statements like" what's a guy to do" and "it'll never change, that's just the way it is". Really people? Really? I need better coping skills for people like that.

It's been a rough week and I can say that I'm looking forward to going home tonight! Plus there is a bottle of spiced rum in the fridge, that I'm sure will taste mighty fine with a splash of water and a slice of lime... That will wait for Saturday night.

Keep on reading...

2011-11-22T10:58:00.001-04:00

Here goes the story: someone wants to buy my house, they walked by when it was for sale, but never stepped foot inside it. They knocked on the door a few weeks ago and asked if they could have a peek. My response was "sure, come in and have a look, it's a bit lived-in". They loved the house, but needed further approval for a higher amount. Can you see where this is going? Yep, they've been approved for my asking price. So, it looks like I'm going to be selling my house privately ( with a little help from a real estate friend). Oh, and the closing date? First week of January if all goes well. I'm scared to death. Now, lets get the ball rolling and let the packing begin!

Rethinking shopping

2011-11-21T15:25:00.000-04:00

Yesterday I went Christmas shopping. Actually I went more for the drive and Costco, than I did for the shopping. I did buy a few small Christmas gifts.

I did treat myself to a large coffee and a chocolate chip oatcake from the Second Cup ( 5.75 and very good). I bought this after I roamed the mall and started to suffer from envy. Yes, I was watching people buying bags and bags of stuff in the mall, looking at the clothes people were wearing and thinking: I wish I had the money to dress like that, or I wonder where she got those boots? I bought the treat,went to my car to sit and drink the coffee. I knew that my impulses were getting low and bailed on the mall. I texted the others, told them where I was, and within 20 minutes the others were done and ready to hit the road to Costco.

Even at Costco, I'd put stuff in the cart and take it out after a little bit. I did end up with new pillows, panties, a gift, apples and yogurt.

I managed to stop the little green monster and still have fun! Now, I just need to get a few more things and I'll be done the buying of gifts. I'll just need to do some baking and decorating, and I'll be ready for the season.

Sunday night Chit chat

2011-11-20T21:41:00.000-04:00

What are you…

Cooking/Baking…
nothing today, spent the day doing some Christmas shopping with my sister and cousin. We split the gas cost (10.00 each and enjoyed our supper out)

Watching/Reading…
watched a little of the Amazing Race - and howled with laughter! Oh, the poses! Very shortly I'll be turning the fireplace on, and reading something.

Listening To…
The dryer tumbling and the washer spinning.

Looking Forward to this week…

Going to bed Friday night... I have to work Friday night, so I won't see my family until late! But I have 2 entire days off! I'm hoping to get a hair cut this week too!

Happy You Accomplished today…

Some Christmas shopping ( I'm done all 5 of the little people in my life, plus got another gift for DD). I also bought 2 new pillows and new bloomers. So I tossed the old pillows and 2 pairs of bloomers. I decided it was time to invest in new bloomers, after last night. Yep, while working last night my underwear started to slide down, which was a sign to buy some new ones!

I wonder what the soup will taste like?

2011-11-19T12:09:00.001-04:00

Today was designated for clean the fridge day. I bagged up all the frozen and perishable goods, took them to my mothers, and cleaned out the fridge. While doing so I found the following: a frozen chicken carcass, 1/4 box of chicken stock, 1 cooked and frozen chicken breast, 1/2 cup frozen corn, 1 cup of frozen tomato and about a cup and a half of salsa that was just beginning to get wonky. I decided to make soup from it all ( adding a bay leaf, chicken soup base, carrots and onion). Since I've made the stock, I've added 1/2 cup brown rice and 1 can of white kidney beans. I'll toss some more frozen veggies in later and I'll let you know how the soup tastes.

Just sampled the soup- looks and tastes like vegetable soup with a bit of kick. Plus it made enough for about 10 servings!

Thursday already?

2011-11-17T16:32:00.000-04:00

Ok, time needs to start slowing down! This week has just flown by. It hasn't been without a few dips in the road, but since they involve others, I'll keep things close to my heart.

This week-end will find my nest empty, which means I can get a lot of things done! I find it easier to do things around the house when I'm alone, ( sorry DD), so I've made a list and will do my best to get things knocked off the list. I've got my secret bloggy santa person, but they haven't indicated what they would like, so I'm going to have to base it on some obsrevations that I've made about them on their blog.

Money wise, I still have money in the bank ( a little at least) and I'll need to put about 20.00 in before I leave for home tomorrow. I get paid from my PT job this week and it's a small cheque( about 75.00) but every penny counts.

I've also made an appointment for the dog to go to a groomers for a good scrub, nail trimming, etc. It'll cost me around 50.00, but he'll be pretty and hopefully scratch the floor a little less. He's being dog sat this week by my parents, and he's been enjoying himself, hanging with my nephew and keeping tabs on my dad.

I probably won't step foot into the grocery store again this week-end, I do need milk, but I'll grab it at the corner store, so I won't be tempted to wander and pick up stuff that I don't need right now. I'm keeping my expenses down to the bare bones to get a few things cleared, and I'm seeing lots of fun, frugal food in my future for the next week or two.

I do see spending Sunday afternoon in the kitchen, which I love and should keep me focused. I'm also looking forward to getting part of the basement whipped into shape and having a spot to do a painting or two. Actually, maybe I should clean the spot tomorrow night, so I can spend an hour or two getting some thing ready to paint.

In case I don't get around to writing again for a few days, happy week-end eve everyone!

It's a sun shiny day!

2011-11-13T08:52:00.000-04:00

It's nice and sunny here today, and a lovely 4 degrees Celsius at 8:30. I foresee a lovely walk in the woods later on.

I got paid on Thursday and did the usual paying bills, etc. Supper was seafood lasagna ( Presidents choice on sale a few weeks ago for 5.99), and it was yummy! It fed DD and I for two meals and it's something I'll by again.

I decided not to enter the grocery store yesterday, but today I'll have to go and get a few things like milk, onions, bananas and mushrooms.

I did work last night and brought home 110.00 ( all of which I made in 4 hours), as I never took another table after 9:00. I also added another 100.00 to my spending money for my vacation, bring the total up to 229.00 American. ( only 71.00 more to go).

This weeks meals will be simple, omelets with roasted potatoes, stir fry, and soup. I'll make some chili today, and freeze it for lunches. Breakfast will be oatmeal with fruit and yogurt. I may even make some banana bread and pizza dough to freeze.

Now I'm off to join my family for breakfast!

Rememberance Day

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Take a moment or two to say thanks to all those who have served over the years. I hold dear in my heart my uncle J who lied about his age to join the army, my two maternal great uncles who both served in France during WWII and both who met the loves of their loves while serving in the Airforce overseas.

Just wondering?

2011-11-08T18:12:00.000-04:00

I've been to two funerals in the past three weeks. Emotionally draining, it is. I noticed that other bloggers have been doing the same in the past few weeks. I'm just wondering if there seems to be more people passing away or is there more people blogging about it? Eboo, this question is for you: is there particular times of year where there are more deaths than others? Morbid I know, but this is on my mind.

Friday, a mixed bag!

2011-11-05T08:39:00.000-03:00

I turned 42 yesterday... I don't feel any older, but my body does these days! I came home to a clean house ( thanks to my DD, my mom and one of my darling Aunties). I had supper at my mothers, and received flowers, some new cutlery ( which I'm in desperate need of), two cute mugs and lots of birthday wishes. I hug out with my two oldest friends ( we've been friends since 1975- 36 years), and we laughed, told stories and enjoyed each others company for a few hours.

On the not so good side, someone I worked with for the past few years passed away yesterday. That one hits close to home.

I'm taking this week end off work to spend some much needed time with friends and family. Long walks, some minor house work and lots of visiting are in order.

What's running through my brain these days...

2011-11-02T16:34:00.000-03:00

Christmas is running through my brain like crazy these days. I've got two gifts purchased now. Total spent 180.00 ( Both are for DD).

I really, really, really want a KOBO vox... Maybe after Christmas I'll get one ( before I go down South). I'm thinking it will weigh a lot less than 8 books I'll want to read while laying on the beach, drinking rum punch.

I would also like a new black turtleneck, new black pants, a pair of black flats, a couple of new sweaters and new scarves. I'd love a pair of FRYE boots too, now that I'm writing about it.

I've been in a funk lately. Not in the deep hell of depression, but a funk... Chocolate has been helping the funk, but not my weight.

I spent 50.00 on groceries last week ( that included 12.00 for butter that was on sale at Shoppers)Plus another 80 on things like Halloween treats, dog food, light bulbs and other things.

I did manage to spend 14.00 on groceries yesterday and bought milk, cream, frozen veggies, a pizza, 2 apples, 2 bananas, and carrots. That, combined with the other food I had here will do me the week. I did end up throwing out 6 eggs, 4 carrots, milk, 1/2 lemon, 1/2 an onion and 1/2 a lime from my work home. Ouch... It all expired over the week-end...

I'm looking at a low key week-end... I'm not working, so I hope to do some thing fun for a change. ( I think that's my problem, I'm spending all my time working, doing housework, but very little fun time: something to ponder)

I'll spend 100.00 next week on the car, having the winter tires put on, an oil change and the winterization.

I'm also looking forward to a couple of nice long walks in the woods with the dog and maybe going to a Yoga class...

Enough of my ramblings, see ya'll later!

and Halloween Monday finds me at home again...

2011-10-31T13:45:00.000-03:00

I didn't make it to work today. Why? Well, in my infinite wisdom yesterday, I gave the dog a soup bone. And when I got up this morning, I discovered piles of chewed up bone nicely deposited all over the house, complete with barf and bile. Lovely, just lovely.

So I spent the morning cleaning, and now I'm actually working from home for the afternoon, getting things done! I'll be ready for the trick or treaters, and to be back at work tomorrow.

Spendy day and I didn't even leave the house!

2011-10-27T18:03:00.000-03:00

Today, I finally got my back time! So I paid bills, CC's and money on the LOC ( I didn't pay it in full yet, as I had little bills to get finished! I did join CAA, for 110.00, and I'll get some perks from that . I had free road side assistance until my car hit 60,000 kms, which it did yesterday. Considering that I drove over 1200 kms since Sunday, it's a must.

I did end up taking today and tomorrow off work. I'm happy that I did, and I got my living room thoroughly cleaned, including the curtains washed and rehung. I also put away 3 baskets of clean clothes in DD's room, and managed to get three bags of papers ready for shredding, papers filed, and the dog got a lovely walk.

I have a story to share about our walk. We were walking along, and I saw an empty Cheetos bag laying on the trail. The dog stopped to sniff the bag, and I saw the bag move, then spotted a fuzzy gray tail sticking out of the bag. The dog stood still, and suddenly a gray squirrel scrambled out of the bag, and up the nearest tree. The dog was dumbstruck and didn't react until the squirrel was safely up the tree. I'm standing on the trail howling with laughter and watching the dog sniff frantically, looking for the squirrel. I wish that I had a camera with me.

I'm in...

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for another blogger swap... Hosted by
http://savernotaspender.blogspot.com/2011/10/introducingthe-bloggy-secret-santa.html

things about me:

I love chocolate but am allergic to tree nuts
I love to read
I spend a lot of time driving
My favorite color to wear is purple
I love vintage tea pots.
I love aprons and homemade wool socks
I love handmade soap.

Disappointed...

2011-10-26T11:14:00.000-03:00

That's how I feel. I may take the next two days off work to deal with some stuff... Life happens...

My money decision has been made for me...

2011-10-24T08:53:00.000-03:00

How may you ask? Well, I opened my mail last night and discovered that my 2000 LOC is going from 3% to 9% by mid Novemeber. So, I'll pay it off and close the account! Simple. My trip will be paid for Friday, and I have 1/3 of my spending money already ( I'm taking $300 Amercian).

Now to finish up the budget and get to work. ( I been up since 4:00 and I'm going home tonight as I have stuff to do home that can't be put off, it'll be a tight week, but the thoughts of spending 2 extra nights at home is well worth it). Oh and rumors are going that we maybe offered another 2 years at this job... Lots to think about!

So, I wandered off to the grocery store this afternoon...

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And I still have 4.92 left for the next ten days. However, I should make out like a bandit, as I have lots of food! I have a chicken to roast ( from the freezer), beef to use in beef and broccoli, pork to cut and marinade for kebobs, bacon for breakfast and supper, the fixings for a huge pot of chili, beef for a Sheppard's pie (that spelling doesn't look right), 40lbs of potatoes, lots of chicken stock and veggies. Oh and frozen blueberries and strawberries. I've got everything to make banana bread, pizza, etc! Now, to make my list of things to do tomorrow and I'll get cooking.

Thanks for the "limit" the grocery spending for the last two weeks of the month. I should make out OK, especially if DD will buy the fruit and milk next week.

Where to put the money...

2011-10-20T16:13:00.000-03:00

Senario #1
$ 3,300.00
Trip - $1,200.00

$2,100.00
LOC - $2000.00
$100.00 towards Xmas

Pros- LOC closed for good. I have a hard time not tapping into it when I need a little extra. If I pay it off and close it, I’ll have another 160/month to put towards other debt. I’m working to reduce my temptations.

Cons – I only have a little bit in my Emergency fund.

#2

$ 3,300.00

Trip - $1,200.00

$2,100.00

Xmas $1000.00

$1,100.00

DD $500.00

Save $600.00 ( in mini emergency account)

Pros - mini emergency fund

DD can be paid out of my pay cheque.

CON LOC still opened... Tempetation...

#3
$ 3,300.00

Trip - $1,200.00

$2,100.00

DD $500.00

RRSP $ 1500.00

$100.00 towards Xmas

DD can be paid out of my pay cheque.

RRSP can help reduce my taxes by a little.

CON LOC still opened... Tempetation...

I'm finally getting my money!

2011-10-20T06:42:00.000-03:00

Next pay day! I'm a very happy camper right now... When I see my bank account next week, I'll be doing some singing! Now, I'm off to crunch some numbers!

Christmas spending

2011-10-18T06:20:00.000-03:00

I've sat down and roughly figured out spending for the Christmas holidays. I've figured out 1000.00 ( or less should do it). Now before everyone has a heart attack, I must explain something. My family has a week-end planned that will have an over night stay in a hotel planned, plus a lovely meal and an over night stay at the kennel for the dog. I totally forgot about the weekend away until last week. It's something that my parents really want to do ( and frankly I'm thinking that my father's health is on a rapid decline and who knows if he'll be here next Christmas), we'll go. I have a budget of 350.00 for that. 300.00 ( or less ) for DD, 200.00 for the other kids/family. 150.00 for food, tree etc.

For the little ones, I'm planning on buying books. If I can get my hands on a scholastic book order form, I'll buy them that way. My older nephews will get movie cards. I'll pick up some little lego for my two younger nephews, and DD? Well, she started a list for me, following the 4 gifts rule ( want, need, wear, read). Stocking stuffer's I usually cash out my Shoppers points and buy the stuff that way ( paying only the tax).

I'll check my paper goods and see if I need anything else. ( I may need some cards, but I'll buy those at the dollar store).

Food wise, I'll do some baking, homemade bread is always good, along with chocolate balls and a few other things, but I have most of the things I need for that already!

Anything I'm missing off the list?

Sunday, oh sweet Sunday!

2011-10-16T12:38:00.000-03:00

This past week has not been the greatest. My aunt passed away after battling cancer, ( it was sad but we talked to our parents about their funeral plans, which are not in place and I asked my mom to please have everything ,down to their clothes arranged, which they are doing in a few weeks). I got paid on Thursday and have 45.00 to my name until I get my pay from my PT job next week. I have groceries ( DD will give me money towards the groceries), and will spend part of today cooking up a storm.

So far today, I've made pineapple stir fry, a pot roast( I sliced it in half, and slice half into thin strips to be used for stir fry), I have veggies that need to be cut and ready to eat raw, salad to make and lunches to prep for the week. I'm going to make some type of cookies and pizza dough to freeze. There's cheese to shred and maybe even a pot of potato soup to be made.

The dog will get a well deserved walk, I'll have a clear head and I'll feel better. Here's to a better week!

Who says people over 40 don't having it happening!

2011-10-11T16:02:00.000-03:00

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Thankgiving dinner our way

2011-10-10T09:06:00.000-03:00

Thanksgiving dinner this year was potluck style. Everyone who came made a dish or two. I cooked the turkey ( my mother bought it and stuffed it), plus she made the cranberries and bought a pumpkin pie from Costco. I cooked a 10 lb bag of potatoes, a bag of frozen peas, DD made the gravy and cooked an apple pie that I bought last week from a local youth group. Another friend cooked carrots and turnip, and my cousin brought rolls. We had two tables set up, one in the living room, and the dining room table. After supper, the grown ups washed all the dishes ( I unpacked my china), while the coffee was brewing and the tea was steeping. We ate dessert and went outside to enjoy the heat( I think it was around 24 degrees Celsius) and drink our coffee/tea.

I only spent 11.00 so far this weekend on tobacco, and today I need to buy gas. I made 85.00 working on Saturday night, and worked 8.5 hours. I even managed to get some yard work done and will do a little more today!

I even walked the dog everyday this week-end, and he's a happy boy. Yesterday, he stayed outside for almost 10 hours, when he finally settled for the night, he barely moved!

Today, I'll do some yard work, laundry and have a little fun too!

Happy Thanksgiving to my fellow Canadians!

How I did for the challenge?

2011-10-06T20:05:00.000-03:00

Starting October 1, 2010 I'll be joining Sharon and Maureen in an adventure, where the focus for me will be to live my life or " Paddling my Own Canoe", and when I chose to spend my money, it will be with a purpose. I will buy foods I love, but fast food... bye bye. If I chose to dine out- it will be at a "real resturaunt" with "real food". ( I'm doing good with this one, I really don;t like to eat out at all now, I usually don;t like the food! I do love one placefor breakfast however)

For me personally, my biggest challege will be smoking. However, I'm starting a running program within the next week or so, and the goal is to train in 9 weeks for a 5 KM run. So roughly around the first week of December or so I'll have completed a 5 KM run... Deep breath, Sam deep breath, you can do this! ( not even close!)

I will spend money on my health-new sneakers-exercise class. ( nope, still don;t have new sneakers)
I will save 1000.00 towards a week's cottage vacation or camping trip. ( no)
I will pay off my MC and snowball those payments.( paid off !)
I will have a balance of 1000.00 in my chequing account by October 1, 2011. ( no)
I will have a minimum of 2000.00 saved in my TSFA.( nope)

I will have a set " spending amount" for each month. ( TBA)
I will continue to find joy in the every day. ( yep)
I will buy make-up when necessary ( no more FRUMP for me). ( I do)
One more thing... I'm ready to start "dating" again... So, I'd like to go on a date a month ( maybe more). Just throwing that one out there! ( Bah ha, remember my one date back in January! However I wil date if asked, or I meet someone that is remotely interesting)

Now what to do for the next year? any ideas?

Getting PO'ed paid off...

2011-10-06T18:26:00.000-03:00

For a change, getting PO'ed paid off. Yes, just after I posted my last blog, emails were being sent around. Did if have something to do with the phone calls I made in the past two days? I'll never know. But I do know that by the end of this month I'll have my money!

YIPEE... I'm dancing around in my chair right now...

Thanks for reading my rants over this...

:)

Now I'm just plain 'ol POed..

2011-10-06T08:50:00.000-03:00

I just checked my on line pay stub and oh, yeah you guessed it, no increase again. This makes it the 8th pay without the top up. So now they owe me, 5040.00...

I know where the hold up is, and frankly, I had just about enough of their BS. Really, it takes six union executives to sign the papers? Really? SIX...

Time for a change...

2011-10-04T19:47:00.000-03:00

So I switched the background... It made me smile... Some times its the little things that count.

Three more days until the long week-end, and the weather is looking like it's going to be a great week-end.

starting to feel better...

2011-10-02T18:50:00.000-03:00

I'm not 100% yet, but I do feel a bit better. ( I wanted to rip my head off Friday night, my sinuses were so plugged that the neti pot didn't work, but I managed to get it to work on Saturday morning). I did manage 2 short walks with the dog this weekend, plus I worked a 8.5 hour shift yesterday. I made 90.00 CDN and 46.00 American ( which is going towards my spending money for my trip down south). I spent nothing Saturday, today DD and I joined my parents at a church supper and it was a total of 20.00 for the 2 of us. I also got gas 56.00, tobacco 21.00, potatoes 20.00 ( I'll get 10 back from a friend), and 12.00 for a bucket of double chocolate cookie dough.

I have a chicken roasting in the oven, which DD and I will split for the week. I stuffed it with lemon, onion, fresh rosemary, salt and pepper. I didn't buy any groceries this weekend, and if DD needs anything, she'll be buying it.

I'm having turkey dinner here next Sunday, with about 15 people coming. I'll buy the turkey and make the stuffing, and the others that are coming will bring the other things. My mom will bring dessert and cranberries, my sister is making mashed potatoes and a sweet potato dish, a family friend will be making carrots and another veggie, my cousin will be bringing the rolls and maybe a third veggie. All in all, it's looking like it'll be a happy Thanksgiving.

I'm off to pack my bags and I'm hoping everyone is feeling better!

a gift from my DD

2011-09-30T06:46:00.000-03:00

DD has given me a gift... a wonderful head cold! It's left me with sore gums, popping ears and best of all? The pleasure of waking up with my poor sinuses draining down my face! I'll be heading home early today, to spend the rest of the day in bed or on the couch, resting and reading, with a box of tissues by my side, my Neti-pot awaiting me in the bathroom and fingers crossed, some homemade soup!

I'm hoping everyone has a fablous weekend!

feeling fatigue...

2011-09-27T19:29:00.000-03:00

I'm plain old tired today, after going none stop all week-end. I can say that I had fun hanging out with family Friday night. Saturday I did a few things around the house and said good bye to my sister for another year.

I ended up working 17 hours at my Pt job this week-end. We all worked hard. Enough said... I need to learn to say no...

We celebrated DD's birthday with some yummy ribs, smashed potatoes, roasted veggies, and dessert.

I did spend 175.00 at the grocery store. Dog food and flowers took up about 55.00, along with 28.00 for ribs. Personal things took up another chunk of about 25.00, and throw in a can of coffee for 14.00. I haven't spent that much money on food/house in months, if not well over a year.

Oh, and add in the 20.00 that I gave my mom to pick me up a few things at Costco on the week-end. Yikes, 195.00... for food...

That took up most of my PT pay check, add in gas money for the week, it's all gone.

The fatigue has struck with debt too... But I can say that my CC's have not been out of my wallet for over a month now... and that's a good thing!

I'm tired of the run around...

2011-09-22T15:32:00.001-03:00

Well folks, my pay stub is posted for next week, and suprise, suprise, no top up yet! So now I'm standing at 4410.00 minus deductions being owed to me! The best news is I'm done paying my EI for the year, so my pay is bigger next week, I'll be done with CPP the first pay in October!

We're now waiting for the unions to sign off on the paperwork... My lord, we've been working on this actively for 6 months...

Trying this out...

2011-09-21T20:00:00.007-03:00

I'm just trying this out and I have two questions: Eboo did your painting arrive yet? MAkky's Mom: do you think I could have readers rights to your blog? I miss reading what you had to say...

The week-end is over, and I'm back to work...

2011-09-19T15:55:00.002-03:00

This week-end flew by. I babysat my nephew on Friday night, and we had fun. We went to BK for supper, my parents came with us, we went to the Bulk Barn afterwards, and he spent money buying candy, while I bought a few dog treats and some popcorn. He was sound asleep by 9, and I was asleep not long after.

Saturday morning, I spent cleaning and doing little odds and ends in the kitchen. I had the fiber optic internet/phone/tv installed. It's working ok so far... and there's still nothing on TV. LOL

Saturday night I worked, made 115.00, and ran all night long... ( well, 'til 11:00 pm). Oh and I ran and grabbed a few groceries to get DD and myself through the week.

Sunday DD had her MRI, it went well, my big sister is home for a week, so we popped off to visit with her, and I scored some new to me clothes... I also squeezed in about 8 loads of laundry, mowed the lawn, etc. We had supper at my parents, ham, scalloped potatoes, mixed veggies and dessert.

I spent very little money with week-end ( 11.00 @ BK, 7 @ BB, 30.50 @ tobacco, 29.00 @ grocery store and 61.00 for gas.)

This week-end, I'm "suprise" working Saturday night, but will be home on Monday, as I have blood work and other stuff to get done. I'm hoping for nice weather so that I can get the outside work finished at my house!

Also, next week my baby turns 19... legal drinking age, and better yet, legal age to bartend... ( more money to be made). I have to think of something for her for her B-day... Maybe part of plane ticket to Ontario to check out some Universities.

I'm done rambling, see you all later...

I had written a lovely post...

2011-09-15T16:26:00.002-03:00

and when it published half was missing, so I deleted the whole thing. I will say this, just writing the post made me feel 100 times better... I'm calmer and much happier right now...

Just because one person is unhappy they shouldn't try to bring others down... SO to my naysayers in the world, take a flying leap... I will empower to myself and not let you affect my day, my life, my health...

I cannot change the choices in your life. You've made certain decisions and guess what? If you don;t like where you are --- the door is right there... leave... be my guest... I'll protect those who like what they are doing and will use there skills, but frankly, to those of you who like to chaos where ever you go... Stay out of my way please...

Now, I'm off... thanks.

Not much happening lately

2011-09-13T20:21:00.002-03:00

Life is fairly low key right now. The house is slowly becoming "ours" again. DD is doing well working and the dog is good too. The dog has even managed to lose weight this summer, which made the vet very happy last week.

Work is work, a few new things going on, but change is good.

DD's will be having her MRI very soon, which should give a few more answers. DD did do a number on her body with an old sports injury. One shoulder is currently sitting about 3 inches higher than the other. She's has to learn how to reuse many muscles again, in her shoulder, back, hips.

Money wise? I'm hanging in there. I've signed the contract but it's sitting on someones desk awaiting more signatures... Are you suprised? I'm not. It's going on 7 pay periods that I've missed my top up. 630 x6 = 3780.00 gross is what I'm missing... about 2400.00 net so far... One a good note, I'm close to topping out on my CPP and EI deductions, which will give me a little more on my pays.

Two great things happening this week-end? My sister is coming home for a visit ( I'll see her one day) and I'm babysitting my nephew on Friday night. He loves to stay at my house, and have the dog sleep with him. We've made plans for the evening, and he'll help me do some things around the house on Saturday.

I'll have to start planning my Christmas events and purchases soon. I have a couple of ideas, but nothing set in stone yet.

Enjoy the rest of your week everyone!

I have a confession to make:

2011-09-11T13:07:00.002-03:00

ND Chic, I really don't follow a recipe for anything but baking. I usually read over a recipe, make it once and the recipe stays on my memory. ( Yes, I'm a little freakish that way).

Even so, I'll give you the rough outline of how I made my chili last week.

2 large balls of ground beef( about the size of a soft ball)
1 large onion, diced
couple of cloves of garlic( if you wish)
1 large can of crushed tomatoes
1 large can of diced tomatoes
1 can red kidney beans
1 can white beans
3- 4 cups grated zucchini
1 cup frozen corn
spices- I just used tex'mex spice, crushed chilies, chipotle pepper and franks hot sauce( I don;t measure them, I just sprinkle over the top until it looks ok and tastes spicy enough).

I brown the beef, add the onions and cook them until their soft. I then add the garlic and zucchini, cook until soft. I them add everything else and let it simmer for about 4 or 5 hours. I ended up with 12 cups of chili.

DD will take the beans and throw them in the blender to mush them, as she doesn;t like the texture of the beans, but me? I don't bother.

Can I say I'm proud!

2011-09-06T19:47:00.002-03:00

DD got her first pay cheque from her job, plus she got paid for doing a side gig. Total? Over 1000.00! What is she going to do with the money. Put it on her student loan! Momma's proud of you! That will make a dent into the loan.

Buying groceries...

2011-09-04T14:09:00.003-03:00

So far this week I've spent probably over 350.00 in groceries and household goods. Yep, for two people. Mind you, I'll be running two households again come Tuesday morning. That means double of everything for me, so I don't have to constantly pack everything up and drag it back and forth between homes.

Tomorrow, my sister and her family are coming over for a late lunch/early dinner and we'll be BBQing steak, veggies and having some delicious dessert of some kind.

I've got the pantry pretty well stocked up, healthy snacks bought for work ( like raisins, crackers, etc). I also spent 50.00 for cheese at Costco... huge blocks of parm and asiago ( should be enough for the year).

On a side note, I got my hair cut on Friday... and it's not pretty! It's got long pieces, too short pieces, etc. DD will "fix" my hair as best she can, but I guess I'll be looking for someone else to cut my hair...

I did make a huge pot of chili today. It's got 2 cans of beans ( white and red, 3 cups of shredded zucchini, 1 cup of corn, plus 2 cans of tomatoes. It shold feed me for quite a few lunches.

I only have one thing to say for today;

2011-09-03T09:03:00.001-03:00

Eboo, your painting is in the mail. You should have it by next Friday...

Starting to "Move back In"

2011-08-30T22:31:00.002-03:00

Having your house for sale means putting a ton of things away, like family photos, art work, etc. Now, I get to put some things back and do a little more purging.

I can actually buy groceries and stock up on staples for the house ( which I am so looking forward to).

DD and I went over her tentative budget for the next year. She'll be paying large chunks on her student loan, saving money in both an RRSP and TSFA, plus setting up a travel account with ING ( I'm thinking). She'll be taking over her cell phone bill and helping pay some bills.

On Thursday, DD and I may take a little road trip to Costco and some other shopping. Actually I just want to go to Costco. The mall and other stuff? Naw. Although I do need some new pants for work, but I think that I'll wait for a little bit longer.

It's looking like we'll have our contract fixed and signed next week, and fingers crossed that the money will be back in our accounts by the end of September. I'll take some of the money and pay off my trip, plus a few other things ( like savings).

Home safe and sound!

2011-08-28T17:21:00.002-03:00

I made it back from Ottawa, safe and sound! On the drive up, I drove through Montreal ( white knuckled). While there I saw the Rideau Canal, signed the condolence book for Jack Layton, went to the market twice! Had a couple of really good meals, a really good Sangria, saw the Caravaggio exhibit at the National Gallery ( here's a link to my favorite painting http://www.artchive.com/artchive/G/gentileschi/gent_holofernes.jpg.html, bought some things for the house ( New dishes), etc, and some birthday/baby shower gifts. I drove from outside Montreal to home and we only had rain for the last 3 hours of the drive.

The house is officially NOT Sold. I'm not relisting for now. I do have to call the Realtor as there is supposed to be a showing tomorrow, but I want my house back and DD needs to feel at home again.

That's my trip in a nutshell. Now I'm off to watch some TV, and read some blogs!

See you on Sunday!

2011-08-23T13:07:00.001-03:00

I'll see/read everyone's goings on when I get back home on Sunday. I'll be traveling sans computer for the week!

Our day so far...

2011-08-22T14:51:00.002-03:00

DD's appointment with the specialist went well. He sent her for blood work right away to test for rheumatoid possibilities. He also requested her MRI to be done ASAP, and she starts Physio next week. After two long years of her dealing with the pain, finally we are getting somewhere!

I got the car registered to a tune of 129.00, I stopped by the insurance agents and told then Not to cancel the policy until I called to confirm that the house is indeed sold. I also got the car into the shop and return the library books.

The house showing was canceled and postponed until tomorrow ( which I'm very annoyed with, as I'll be on the road and the dog needs to stay out of the house until tomorrow night!

Groceries still need to be bought and Dd needs clothes for work, so I'm off to do that! Rest will come later on!

It's going to be a crazy few days!

2011-08-20T11:53:00.002-03:00

Here's the agenda for the next few days:
Saturday -work 5-1
Sunday -work 5-12
Monday - Dd has an appointment with a specialist, car app @ 12:20, house showing at 4:00
Tuesday- DD and I both have Dr's appointment for our yearly check-ups!

I have lots of things to do in between, like clean the house, laundry, take DD shopping for pants and shoes for work, get my car registration renewed, drop off library books, magazines, etc!

Tuesday afternoon? I'm hitting the road to Canada's capital city for a few days! I'll spend Monday evening hanging out with DD, and the dog!

My Realtor called this morning and someone new is interested in the house! Hence the showing on Monday. I'm not unpacking what's already packed, so some areas will look a little bare!

So there's a snag in the financing...

2011-08-19T19:21:00.002-03:00

Ok people there is a snag with the financing. Fingers crossed and say a prayer that it all gets settled and soon! I'm putting it out again to the universe to let the lady get the financing, for the house inspection to be positive and that the sale go through!

I'm doing my best to stay positive but it's hard!

Keeping my spirits up

2011-08-18T11:24:00.002-03:00

The sun is finally shining in our neck of the woods!

It may be a beach afternoon, I had a good yoga class yesterday, an excellent massage ( Blue cross I thank you), a lovely brisk walk with my sister this morning and I got paid.

I'm focusing on the good things right now...

Some times you have to use your contacts

2011-08-16T11:49:00.003-03:00

I used a contact to get DD a job for the fall. She starts next week. I've never done it before, and mostly likely will never do it again, but sometimes people have to start somewhere! Here's to one thing off my shoulders!

I've been blogging for Three years now!

2011-08-12T18:14:00.002-03:00

Wow, three years and counting! I just want to say thanks to everyone who reads my rambles.

I still blog anonymously, but there are a few people out there who know my real name.

In the past three years, I've renovated the exterior of my home, the bathroom got a total gut job, all new floors and doors, oh and light fixtures too! I also made the decision to list and "sell" my house.

I've adopted a cat and a dog, the cat was put to sleep last summer.

I've changed jobs ( twice at my "real" job, now I'm starting my third year at my contract job), plus working at my PT job.

I've taken part in one give away, and my painting now resides in France. Eboo, I haven't forgotten about your painting!

I've watched DD graduate from high school, and complete her first year of University. I've also watched her travel across the country more than once, one trip to the US and one trip to Europe.

I feel like I've made friends from my little blog. So thank you all!

Sam

Making lists...

2011-08-07T08:11:00.002-03:00

I've used Fly Ladies Zone method to break up the house for packing, purging and giving away/yard sale.

My goal is have the bulk of the packing done by the end of August. I'll rent a small storage space for a year to hold things like my two rockers, end tables and boxes. The main furniture like our beds will be moved to our respective temporary homes. My couch and chair are going curb side. It'll be free to anyone who wants them, missing cushions and all.

I plan on having a yard sale to get rid of some things that are still good, but I don't see them having a spot in my new home ( where ever that may be!). some things I own will be donated to friends/family who can use the items. As I pack up a "Zone", I'm planning on moving the items out of the house, and cleaning that area.

DD will be moved first, so she can get settled ( she'll be staying with my sister), and I'll probably get the bulk my stuff moved the long week-end.

I'm also going to do a file for the new owner with all the instructions for the fireplace, warranties, etc for everything in the house.

Before I know it, the end of September will be here!

and the winner is...

2011-08-05T10:56:00.002-03:00

ME!

I'm not going to get too excited yet, but I've signed off on the paperwork and the house is SOLD! ( barring any unforeseen circumstances). I'll get my 115,000 roughly... Holy moly, now to get some packing started! The closing date is the end of September.

Thanks to all those who chimed in. I had a good chat with my sister this morning and she was a great help!

I'll really celebrate on the 19th of this month, when everything will be done excpet the moving out!

Offer is in

2011-08-04T22:14:00.002-03:00

and I'm not excited. The offer is good, room to negotiate, but I just can't get excited. I have until tomorrow night to respond. I even know the lady who wants to buy it, and shes very sweet.

My head is saying take the money and run, while my heart feels heavy. It would be the end of an era, but all good things must come to an end, right?

I'm off to bed to sleep on it! Debt free in 2012... now that would be a really, really good feeling!

AUGGGHHHHHHHHHHHHHH>>>>>>>>>>>>> ........................

This is a decision I didn't think I'd be making... ( to be totally honest).
Please feel free to chime in with advice.

A quick update

2011-07-31T12:01:00.002-03:00

No news on the house, surprise , surprise.

It looks like DD will be living here for the next year or so. Her lease was canceled by the landlord/owner last week-end. ( 8 days before they were due to move in). She's thought long and hard about school and has decided that because she's not 100% sure what she wants to do, it makes more sense to stay here and work for a year while figuring it all out. If the house sells, she'll stay at my sisters.

U2 rocked last night, mud and all. Oh, and Pierce Bronson was there! I saw photos! He actually walked by a couple of girls I knew! The only downside? A very, very drunk husband and wife who were very rude and aggressive. We had been standing in our spot since 5:30, and they drunkenly pushed through us at around 11:00. Everyone around us was PO'ed, as she was slopping her drink around and he was pushing other people. After about 10 minutes, they left the area, as the crowd around us had no patience for their stupidity. ( And the fact that 2 guys threatened to pound the snot out of the husband for being such as ass).

As a side note, I went to buy a t-shirt. They had grey, v-neck womens for 30.00 and they were cute. I asked for one, the guy brought it over, held it up, looked at my ample bust ( 36DD if you care) and said" I don't know if it'll fit". I laughed and said trust me, it will. It does fit!

It's been a good week, and now, summer is officially half over! enjoy your week every one!

OK readers, cross your fingers ( and say a little prayer too)

2011-07-25T13:32:00.002-03:00

The house is being shown tomorrow, to the very first lady who saw the house ( and I gave the flooring to), so say a little prayer and fingers crossed the house sells! What does it mean to sell the house? Debt free in 1 year, plus a down payment for a new house next year! I'm sending it out to the universe that I want after everything is all over and done with, 115,000 for the house. My mortgage is 80,000, it would leave me with 35,000. I'd save 20,000 for a down payment, the rest would go towards debt repayment ( and maybe, just maybe laser eye surgery for me).

Debt free by August 2012? What a feeling it would be!

When the computers crash...

2011-07-24T10:33:00.002-03:00

and I didn't even panic! The computers at my PT job have been acting wonky for the past few weeks. They've been freezing like crazy, not closing things down, etc.

Last night after the rush ( TG), the system crashed hard! It was not pretty, but after about 3 hours give or take, they were back up and running, however, some of the bills were corrupted, meaning that I couldn't close them or have staff sign out.

I discovered that I have a lot more patience now, before I would have lost my mind, but last night? It was like water falling off a ducks back!

I did make 60.00 last night, which was great, considering that I only waited on tables for about 3 hours!

The most exciting part of last night? We had a huge, huge rain storm that had thunder and lightening. It was raining sideways! It also dropped the temperature from 31 degrees to 18 degrees in about 1.5 hours. My neighbors lost a good chuck of a tree last night, but in stayed in their yard for a change.

Today I'm going to visit my parents, and bring my nephews back with me. I'll have a friend come and let the dog out later on this afternoon. DD is "fingers crossed" coming home tomorrow for a few days!

I tried something new today!

2011-07-20T20:53:00.002-03:00

I went to a yoga class today and oh my, I hurt! But it's a good hurt. I'm going back next week. Wish me luck!

I also got paid today from my Pt job. 342.42 to be exact. More money to pay down debt with.

Life is good!

Not so cheap Sunday night... But it was a lot of fun!

2011-07-18T12:56:00.002-03:00

Last night I spent 40.00 on drinks, a burger and admission to a night of music. It was a lot of fun, but I'm paying for it this morning ( or afternoon now). It was fun sitting and chatting with friends, enjoying a warm and breezy night listening to live music and drinking cold beer.

Today is a slow day, with lots of water being the beverage of choice today. I won't be going anywhere to spend money today, and on Saturday I didn't spend any money either! I actually made 80.00 working Saturday night and 90.00 on Thursday night. I did spend money on Friday, 29.00 booze ( which will last me a year I'm guessing), 48.00 for tickets for Sunday night ( which I got 36.00 back from friends) and my old friend, tobacco ( 21.00). I even have 53.00 left to my name in cash, and I don't foresee spending a whole lot more this week ( dog food and coffee are on my list).

Now I'm off to work and drink some more water!

Odds and ends and Oh, my geography is way off!

2011-07-14T11:40:00.003-03:00

First off... The wind turbines I saw last week? After looking at the maps, it wasn't North cape, we decided that they were the ones closest to Summerside. Opps. Thanks to Island Witch for getting me off my duff and really looking at the map!

I've figured out a way to move DD for way cheaper! A cargo van ( which I have driven before). Total cost for rental? It'll be just a little over 200.00, plus gas. Phew. Not sure what I'll get in it, but I like that number much better.

I've got my pay straightened out, but no retro yet for what they owe me. Thanks goodness for small favors!

U2 update- we'll be traveling by bus at a cost of 50.00/person. The added bonus, I'll be able to sleep in my own bed that night. No driving involved for me, and I can bring snacks and drinks in the bus! I want to buy a t-shirt and I'll have to buy some type of food while inside and maybe a beer or two... I'll budget 160.00 for that night.

I also had a friend ask me for a painting, so I'll get busy painting tomorrow! It'll be the first time in over 5 years I've painted anything besides a wall, so I'm a little rusty! I've also booked my yearly exam and knocked other things off my list.

House wise, there is little moving here. The contract in done next week and I'm not sure what I'm going to do yet. I have someone who's interested in staying in the house Monday to Friday, so that will pay my rent while I'm away working. I may keep the house listed and have the person move in with the understanding that if the house sells, they'll be looking for another spot?

I froze 8 quarts of strawberries, make 6 jars of jam ( gave one away already) and have one box of berries to eat. I also pureed and froze half a small watermelon. I may use it to add to my water, or use it in a drink or two!

Oh, and I had 2 no spend days so far this week, along with today being a no spend day. I bought groceries this week to a tune of 55.00. Next week I'll need dog food and coffee for sure!

Sweet grass and strawberries...

2011-07-11T20:15:00.002-03:00

I went today to pick up my strawberries for the winter, and the dog came along for the ride. The windows were down and all I could smell was sweet grass the entire drive down. I picked up the strawberries, took the dog for a swim and drove home, with the car filled with the scent of fresh picked strawberries. Tomorrow will be devoted to making freezer jam and freezing berries. Total cost for the berries? 34.00 for a flat. Seeing where the berries are grown? Priceless.

What to do on a raining Saturday?

2011-07-09T11:47:00.002-03:00

Cook/bake!

I've got brownies in the oven, a greek salad in the fridge, chicken noodle soup in the fridge and I might make something else, but I'm not sure yet!

I made bread on Monday, along with strawberry/rhubarb muffins on Monday ( I freeze a lot of it). The soup is made from the carcass from the rotisserie chicken I bought on Tuesday. I froze 1 bottle of stock to have on hand.

I can see getting the rest of the house cleaned ( not that there is a lot to do), and then I can enjoy tomorrow. Not sure what I'll do tomorrow, maybe out for breakfast and a drive to visit my parents at the campground. Or, I can bring the stuff to make breakfast and drive down to see them, and spend the day there. Or invite friends for supper.

I have to decided how to move DD into her apartment. I'm looking at 1,000.00 or more... One option is to have a hitch placed on my vehicle and rent a small trailer. A moving company will be 911 plus tax. U-haul - over 1200.00. I'm not sure what I was thinking that I could do it for under 500! I'm definitely going to have to pick up extra shifts.

Extra income...

2011-07-08T21:58:00.002-03:00

I managed to pick up 2- 8 hours shifts at my PT job tonight. Sweet! Plus I have a lead on a boarder for the fall. Who is she? My neighbors granddaughter! That's all I have to say for today... Oh yesterday was a no spend, today I spent 15.00 getting my underarms, chin and upper lip waxed!

Supper...

2011-07-07T19:14:00.003-03:00

was really good tonight! I made it in about 20 minutes, and the recipe will be a keeper!

My sister and I brought my father and nephew on a little road trip this afternoon to see first hand some of the damage that was done by one of the storms in December. We left mom at home recovering from a medical procedure. I brought snacks of cut up fruit, crackers, and cheese. My sister brought granola bars. My dad? Well he brought his coffee, a sandwich, his cigarettes and his folding stool.

It was a cool afternoon on the beach, but great for walking. My dad can't walk very far without needing to sit and rest now, so we made sure he was ok by himself and we walked, found beach glass, saw the wind turbines in North Cape, PEI across the strait ( which amazed my nephew, checked out the damage and had a great afternoon.

We dropped my dad off at the house and chatted for a bit, the main topic being what to have for supper? I had some cold cooked pasta in the fridge that needed to be used up, along with some not so hot looking veggies. I decided to cook some ground beef and at canned tomatoes and the pasta. However that's not what I ended up making! I'm calling it:

Sam's Salsa Pasta

cook 3/4 lb of beef, adding 1/2 cup chopped onion, 2 stalks of celery and 1 clove of sliced garlic when the beef is almost cooked thoroughly. Add 1 cup of quartered cherry tomatoes, 1/2 cup diced red pepper, 1 cup of cooked spinach and stir. Add to taste Franks Hot Sauce ( I used 4 good dashes) I added Zesty Pepper seasoning ( I buy it at the Bulk barn, tex mex seasoning, a little salt and pepper. I then added 3-4 cups of cooked spiral pasta and about 2/3 of a cup of salsa. Mix and heat. It tastes similar to Taco beef hamburger helper, but much better.

I used up what was in the fridge/freezer instead of letting it go bad and toss it in the garbage!

Anyone else make something yummy out of the bits and bobs in the fridge lately?

So far so good...

2011-07-03T09:57:00.002-03:00

on the fun and frugal part. I spent no money on Friday or Saturday, I made 95.00 last night working which will go towards gas and a few groceries.

Friday night I passed on the washer toss tournament, and instead went to a friends for a camp fire! It was very nice to sit outside and chat around the fire. I had all the making for s'mores, and they were very tasty!

Today I've been invited to a BBQ for supper, and I'll make some type of dessert ; I'm thinking strawberry shortcake with tea biscuits, all I'll need to buy is strawberries and some whipping cream... I'll make the biscuits...

I'm back to work tomorrow, so I have my schedule done up, and I'll be getting the bulk of the work done in the mornings, and my schedule is flexible enough that I can do the rest at any time...

Oh and funny story from Friday: I took the dog to a local park, where he rolled in something, I realized as soon as I saw him start to roll it was his frantic, "I've found something dead and rotting" roll, I jerked his lead, he came out of the bushes with a clear red liquid all over one side, and gave me the " what, I'm doing what dogs do" look. I ended up laughing so hard I had tears running down my face instead of getting PO'ed at him. I took him into the water, washed him as best as I could, and continued walking for a while longer. When it was time to go home, I keep an old blanket in the car, so I threw that down over the back seat, he jumped in and promptly laid down, and never moved during the drive home. He stunk so bad, that I was almost gagging. we arrived home, I tied him outside and went into the house to get something to clean him with. I washed him down where he had rolled and he still smelled like poop ( human poop). I checked him all over, and then I saw it: a small smear of poop on his neck ( about the size of a twoonie). I cleaned him again and left him outside for a couple of more hours until I knew for sure that the smells were gone!

Fun and frugal times...

2011-07-01T11:46:00.002-03:00

So my motto for July will be fun and frugal... Frugal by using up, and making do... Fun by doing things I love, that will cost me very little.

Here's how I started out the month of July; Last night I was invited on a boat ride to watch the fire works on the water. ( If you ever have a chance to see fireworks from a boat do it! It's amazing!). I made a sangria to take, using a bottle of strawberry wine that was a gift, vodka that's been in my fridge since last June, a container of strawberry/kiwi juice ( 79 cents), a sliced lime (75 cents) and 1/2 a quart of strawberries ( 2.00), plus some 7 up ( 50 cents). It was very good...

Today I've been invited to a washer toss tournament, I just have to bring food as admission, and I have pork marinading in the fridge, and I can make a dessert to go too! I haven't made up my mind about going, but just knowing that I can is exciting enough...

I'll keep you updated on the fun things I've found to do this month!